Tuesday, November 18, 2014

1, 2, 3... 4!

When I was pregnant with Meili, my due date varied from November 2nd, to October 31st, and finally October 30th. Because my sisters went early with all of their kids, I just assumed that I would as well. But there was one thing I was sure about: "As long as it's not Halloween." In fact, when we checked in to the hospital 4 years ago, the receptionist said, "How do you feel about a Halloween baby?" And I said, "I'm coming around to the idea." (Because that's what a  week of contractions will do to you.)

Four years later I will tell you that I actually really love Meili's birthday. It is definitely not the worst holiday to share your birthday with.

The day started with Meili opening her presents before Josh left for work. In year's past, I've found that it's hard to juggle opening presents, eating dinner, greeting trick-or-treaters and going trick-or-treating ourselves between the time that Josh gets home from work and bedtime. So starting this year, opening presents in the morning may be the new tradition. And the added bonus was that Meili could play with her gifts all day.

Meili definitely doesn't need a ton of things, but me, as mom, gets carried away sometimes, and the things I buy for Meili are almost as much for me as they are for her.
My mom and I teamed up in getting Meili an 18-inch doll and a horse to go along. But my mom was planning to give Meili her present the next day. As soon as Meili opened her horse she asked if there was a girl that went with it. And I just had to smile all day and say "Nope, I guess there isn't." Then I watched as she tried unsuccessfully all day to make toy and after toy fit on the horse.
The picture's not great, but I couldn't resist. She said she was strong enough to pick up her horse.

Again, even though it's blurry. How can you resist that face?


My friend Alisha and I took our kids trick-or-treating on Main Street.

That night, we had the traditional Macaroni and Cheese that Meili requested. (I let her choose breakfast, lunch, and dinner, and she chose cereal, "Old MacDonald's (I don't think she even knew what she was talking about, but she liked the sound of that place) and Macaroni and Cheese. That sounds like a typical kid-menu to me.) 
Then we went trick-or-treating, but I almost think Meili liked welcoming the trick-or-treaters even more. In fact, some tears were shed when Josh accidentally opened the door by himself once.
I have to say that I think our area is absolutely perfect for trick-or-treating. We had kids come just as it started to get dark, and and they only came for a couple hours. For the most part they were young-ish (the perfect age of trick-or-treaters) and we even had to leave a bowl on the front step for a little while and I honestly believe that people didn't take advantage of that. 
We have some neighbors that usually have a bon fire with hot dogs and hot chocolate, and that's where we ended the night. Then we headed to Bountiful because my parents were having a party the next day, and Josh was planning to go hunting with his brother, so it made more sense to drive down that night than have to wake up early the next morning.

I don't know who was more excited for Meili to open her presents from my parents the next morning, myself, my mom, or Meili?

She loves her doll, LillyAnna.



And these are pictures from my mom's Halloween party...






I love my 4-year-old. I love this age. She is genuinely sweet. Even though she can be a stinker sometimes, for the most part, she really wants make good choices and be helpful. I'm amazed everyday at how smart she is and that she is learning new things constantly. She just started learning to read, and I absolutely love helping her read her books everyday. She loves coloring and puzzles and books and tv and treats and primary and preschool. She LOVES preschool. I would say that this was the year of the horse (obviously), pink, and also the year of "When I was a baby..." Because of Grant, we talk a lot about how she was when she was a baby. So now she just makes things up as she goes along. "When I was a baby, I called popcorn "Kahn-Ae" (or some other made up word that she think up) and then she just laughs and laughs at how silly she thinks she was when she was a baby. Most of all she loves her family. She's always so excited to see dad when he gets home from work, and her grandparents and cousins. And she loves her brother. I can't say enough what a great big sister she is. She wants desperately to be helpful, she is totally willing to share, and always thinking of how she can be helping with Grant (like if he starts heading for the stairs, she is the first to make sure to get in the way, so he won't fall head first.) I could handle her staying this age forever, but she's way too excited to grow up to let that happen!

Wednesday, November 12, 2014

More Halloween

 The young women in our ward did a Halloween carnival fundraiser the Tuesday before Halloween. Can I just mention that I joked that Meili probably just shouldn't take her costume off the week of Halloween, because we had so many events for her to wear it. The week before Halloween I did an activity with my Activity Day girls where she wore her costume, story time at the library the week before Halloween, then Sunday was the party with Josh's family, Tuesday was the activity with the young women, dance on Wednesday, her preschool party on Thursday, and of course Halloween on Friday, then my mom had her Halloween party on Saturday. I was definitely fine with her getting more use out of her costume!
 Notice Grant's wings that make him a "flying monkey?"




 This is a trap that Meili made (which happens regularly in our house.) I just loved all the different elements. Her boots, my little pony, ribbon, the Halloween decoration she made, bubbles, Cinderella glass slipper, basketball hoop, gift box, gift bag, and of course our "Wicked" Halloween decoration. I'm sure in her mind, she new exactly how it would work together to trap something.
The Monday before Halloween, we carved our pumpkins. I think this was the smoothest we've ever been at this particular event. I was worried because we were starting a little late, everything is a little harder with Grant in the equation etc. But we were done in an hour flat, and I thought they turned out pretty good. Meili was definitely the artistic director as she refused to touch the pumpkins period, but picked out the designs for both pumpkins and was very excited about our progress all along the way. Grant was perfectly satisfied in his high chair playing with toys and eating a sucker (thank goodness!) I thought Josh and I were going to have to take turns holding him. 
 Josh carved Mickey Mouse, and the one I carved is not as easily recognizable because Meili wanted Twilight Sparkle (my little pony.) But I was actually impressed with my work.


I can't say enough how much I love this time of year. Halloween has never been my favorite and I don't know if it's just having kids in general or the fact that Meili's birthday is Halloween, but now pretty much mid-September hits and I know we're just going to have fun fun fun until the end of the year (or now, for us, until January 13th!). I love the leaves on the ground, I love soup, hot chocolate, and cider, I love college football, I love all the traditions, I love snow falling and playing the snow, and of course, I LOVE THE HOLIDAYS in general! 

Friday, November 7, 2014

Birthdays

We had a party with Josh's family on the 26th to celebrate Marlyse, Meili, Chris, and Kyle's birthdays. Of course we wanted the kids to dress up.
 Brayden as Olaf

 Meili has been obsessed with the soundtrack to Wicked this year. So she said that she wanted to dress up as Glinda. They don't make costumes for 4 year olds to look like that, but they do make the good witch from Wizard of Oz costumes. So I showed Meili the movie Wizard of Oz so she could see who she was really going to be. (I've also tried to tell her the story of Wicked as we listen to the songs, and it's a little complicated for a 3 year old.)

 Jase is dressed as the dog from Blue's Clues. (Is the dog's name "Blue?" I've never seen it.)
 Kyle

 Carson in his camo

 William

 Andrea as a butterfly

 Meili decorated her own birthday cake. I bit off more than I could chew this particular weekend, so her decorating it was a win win win! She loved decorating it, (all she cared about was the horses on it anyway), I had one less thing to worry about, and it looked so cute with her having done it herself, that everyone loved it more than if I had done it anyway.


In keeping with the Wizard of Oz theme, Grant was a flying monkey, I got all the stuff to be the wicked witch (Elphaba) but never really had a good opportunity to dress up, and I told Josh that he should be the Wizard or a scarecrow. Instead he decided to opt for wearing Aggie warmups and saying that he was walking on the football team to be the next quarterback. (It's sad that it may just about come to that.)

October Traditions

Even though we consider not going every year, my sisters, mom, and I went to see the witches at Gardner Village again this year. Initially we had some sticker shock because they started charging for activities that had never been available before, but after walking around for a little bit, we realized that really we had more than we could do in the amount of time that we had anyway.




 I like all the witches and decor, but really, every year I tell my mom that we just need another excuse to get together and I don't really care what that excuse that is.
 Meili just put this little ensemble together one day. She looks like such a diva! (In the best possible way that that word can be used)
 She wanted a picture with all of the pumpkins, but she is struggling so much with taking good pictures lately. I'm trying all the different ways I can think of to get a normal smile out of her.

One of my favorite Cache Valley, Halloween traditions is the pumpkin walk. Grant struggled the first time through, but luckily my friend Alisha showed up when we were finishing, so we had an excuse to go through again, and Grant was much better.


 The Duck Dynasty entry. Si's quote says, "Some people say I'm a dreamer. Others say, "Fall asleep again and you're fired." I love it!


 Of course Meili was super excited about the Wicked display!





 On the way, I asked Josh to bet me that there would be a Frozen display. For some reason he didn't want to bet against that!





 This is where Josh would tell me that I need to learn how to use photoshop that he got for me YEARS ago. Because Josh looks so good in this picture...
 ...but Grant is better in this one. How to decide?
 Alisha and her son Isaac with Meili.


(See what I mean about struggling with pictures? Luckily she's cute no matter what!)
On a side note, Meili's scar by her eye looks pretty red here because she recently had an injection. Now I'm excited because it's looking so much better than it had.